The concept of submission in a sexual relationship is not the same way most individuals have defined it. Being submissive in a sexual relationship or during sex doesn’t make you unreasonable or sadistic. By now, you should know that submission according to this content is in the context of BDSM, and while you have the submissive, there’s also the dominant. The submissive is, however, in no way lesser compared to the dominator. Although, when it comes to BDSM, one person needs to receive while the other does the domination.
BDSM sex, as mentioned earlier, is incomplete without the domination and submission part. They are the human characteristic of the concept of BDSM, so it’s only normal that the receiver is available to take pleasure.
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What does it mean to be submissive?
The context of submission cannot be explained outside BDSM. However, BDSM isn’t just a word; instead, it’s an acronym that means Bondage, Domination, Submission and Masochism. However, more emphasis is placed on masochism as a characteristic feature of the submissive when it comes to submission. So, before you can be submissive, you must be willing also to receive all the acts that come from bondage given by the dominator. Most times, submission is regarded as sadism because of the concept of BDSM. The entirety of BDSM is often regarded as a form of painful sex, although the term painful isn’t enough to explain what BDSM truly means, although there’s a part of BDSM that is accompanied by pain.
So, to be a submissive, you must be willing to release yourself to the dominator to be used at will. Although, before this, there must have been a pre-established conversation between you and your partner to be sure it’s what you are both willing to explore. However, it is worth noting that being submissive does not mean you cannot be a dominator later. If you are conversant with porn videos, you must have at s,s at some point seen some BDSM videos depicting the acts of submission and domination.
How to be an excellent submissive
More than you think submission is about, so much energy needs to be in place to be an excellent submissive. Being submissive means you must make a conscious effort to get better when it comes to sexual intimacies between you and your partner. Here are some tips you should note to become better at submission.
Have a chat with the dominator:
It takes two to tango, even when it comes to domination and submission. So, to be better, you should chat with the dominator to know how well they need to be serviced. Once you understand what needs to be done, you can be sure to understand how to go about carrying it out, which would mean you understand how to submit to every sexual experience inflicted by the dominator.
Learn from porn videos:
There are no sexual acts that you want to learn that cannot be understood from watching porn videos. So, to be a better submissive, you should watch as many BDSM videos as possible to get more insights. Porn videos are some of the most effective ways to understand your sexuality and the concept of sex, especially from the submission angle. The more porn videos you watch, the more understanding your body you know, even at the point of submission.
Explore your body:
It is essential that you understand your body first and accept yourself first. Once you can ascertain this, you can be sure that being a submissive will become stress-free. You can simultaneously be a DOM (dominator) and a Sub (submissive). Although, there’s a very significant difference between the two concepts. Being a submissive could be for a while, and that doesn’t make you less of a dominator.Nonetheless, the main important fact to note about being an excellent submissive is first accepting your body and exploring your sexuality to the fullest. The concept of BDSM is not the one you try and back down so seamlessly. It could become a fetish, a kink for some persons.