A brief reality check – having great sex with a webcam live girl doesn’t mean logging on, pulling down your pants, and sorting yourself out. It doesn’t. At least, not in this day and age.
The truth is, a sizeable (and somewhat disappointing) proportion of the male population needs to realize that encounters like these are not one-sided. Or they shouldn’t be if you’re looking to get the most out of the experience.
When you hook up with a cam girl, you take on a 50/50 role in a virtual date. Just as would be the case in the real world, you only stand to get the most out of the experience if you make the necessary effort.
Two’s a company, so why not show a little consideration for the enjoyment of the other person involved?
Acknowledging and accepting this alone can instantly pave the way for great virtual sex. As soon as you accept that it is not all about you, you’re heading in the right direction.
But assuming you’re new to the whole webcam thing, it can be difficult to know where to start. Practice makes perfect, but it’s worth arming yourself with tips and pointers for your first times at bat.
For anyone looking to have truly great webcam sex and show their virtual date a genuinely great time, here’s what you need to do:
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1. Choose the Right Time
First up, the ‘virtual quickie’ concept is a little on the misguided side. Virtual dates are all about taking your time, reveling in the experience, and soaking up the whole thing from start to finish. If you only have a few minutes to spare with nothing but instant gratification in mind, watch a porn clip.
This is why it is essential to choose the right time for your virtual date and to ensure there are no distractions in the vicinity. Clear your schedule, turn off your phone, close the curtains, and pretend the outside world doesn’t exist for a while.
Would you answer your phone in the middle of real-world sex? If the answer is yes, you’re beyond our help….and good luck!
2. Plan Ahead
Planning for a virtual date means doing the same things you would do before the real date. Get your grooming in order, take a bath with some candles and soothing music, and maybe watch some porn or read some erotic fiction if it gets you fired up.
Make sure the mood is right, check that your camera gear is in order, and play around with your best angles in advance. In addition, you’ll also want to set the scene for what’s to come. The idea is that when you log on and go live, you’re ready to go – not still attempting to get your tripod to behave.
3. Dress For the Occasion
Just as would be the case when heading out on a real date, it is crucial to look your best to feel your best. You can only expect the person on the other end of the camera to feel appreciated if you are bothered to look good. So be it if this means shelling out on new clothes and accessories.
Women naturally feel appreciated and desirable when men make an effort. This doesn’t necessarily mean going full James Bond in a ridiculous stiff tuxedo, but it does not the least mean throwing those stained and threadbare sweatpants’ art off the equation.
4. Ask Questions
There’s nothing sexier than a man who shows a genuine interest in what women want. Rather than assuming you know what you’re doing, asking questions can be much better.
What turns her on, what she’d like you to do to her, what drives her crazy, and so. The best bit is that with webcam girls, you can ask all the questions you like to gain invaluable insights into what sends women into a frenzy in the real world.
5. Keep it Friendly and Lighthearted
Last up, the very best webcam sex sessions are those that are laced with smiles and laughter. Taking things too seriously is almost always a recipe for disaster. Just as soon as the whole thing becomes stuffy and formal, you’ll find it difficult to take any enjoyment out of the experience.
Enjoy your time together, share jokes, and don’t beat yourself up if things don’t go as planned. Always remember that a man who knows how to laugh at himself is far more attractive than a man who thinks he can do no wrong.